Want Change? Work Together 🔁<p><span class="h-card"><a href="https://hear-me.social/@debby" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>debby</span></a></span> <br>Ok, a reply to your text with main points starting with ➡️ emoji or just 🔴 TLDR points for super short version is possible.</p><p>The first paragraph of each point is mostly the core of each point then skip immediately to next point or just TLDR 🔴 as quick first pass.</p><p>I.E Read more only for more detail but maybe second time around</p><p>🔴 MAIN TLDR of this post or Method Overall is that:</p><p>We need to minimise machines and maximise humans 'for the human way' more often...</p><p>====================<br>OK MORE POINTS BASED ON THAT...<br>====================</p><p> ➡️ The more we do the the title of this post, the more we increment it (us), the more we find another way. learn to respect others etc...</p><p> ➡️ I don't imagine a perfect society or need it immediately, but a society that can accept imperfection more often is more than enough to increment and <a href="https://qoto.org/tags/unite" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>unite</span></a> ourselves.</p><p>Imperfection would be part of being born imperfect or naturally needing to learn (all of us). We can accept we can't learn it all once from birth or even 100%, as adult and move on nicely with positive. </p><p>More often we could focus and give time with others like us, like we did and occasionally enjoyed in school (hence the name FreeSchool) but with a better more modern update-and-learn flexible thinking as we go.</p><p> ➡️ Some people will say 'don't call me X, call me Y' or "I call it X or Y' but as long as it's approx on then OK, just roll with it. </p><p>Online can be like that as we don't need to be big blocks towards unattainable perfection with so much other stuff to get on with.</p><p> ➡️ This is all done as a project or as individuals who have enough direction and taste for it, it would be as a 'just trust me for a bit' template but also if you agree these basic things and direction while being flexible... a bit of hand-holding for human <a href="https://qoto.org/tags/trust" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trust</span></a> <a href="https://qoto.org/tags/building" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>building</span></a> </p><p> ➡️ A bit of risk but improving measurement and crowd testimony / social online helps it avoid it being a scam. Peopel have to show themselves a bit / adapt a bit / invest in people in accepting the new and different peoples (everyone). Might be hard to say and do but constantly we will understand people are individual and individualism hopefully can be attained rather than perfection.</p><p> ➡️ When 'everyone is doing the learning' or a few - then we can see the benefits of being accepted, being semi-transparency - and even desperate for freedom (again while not sacrificing it too readily). </p><p> ➡️ We should be desperate or motivated enough seeing the external <a href="https://qoto.org/tags/shitshow" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>shitshow</span></a> re-occurring and repeated by leaders - this we can see and use to come out of ourselves so we're not just hating leaders and even feeding them. </p><p>🔴 TLDR - We just lead our own lives more and feed that. Getting past our cringe we find our own treasure to share and even others to help clear up.</p><p> ➡️ Even on the Fediverse, in a small way, is enough exposure of ourselves (which many already do in in the right measured way) while expressing more to show we are not bad actors when we can constantly respond / help see why / present ourselves better. I know my profile isn't perfect but either way </p><p>🔴 TLDR We need others and others can help tune us / plug things in that we're missing.</p><p> ➡️ Fear is why keeps us in too, while <a href="https://qoto.org/tags/privacy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>privacy</span></a> can be according to what people prefer I think we need all levels from saying totally nothing and not getting far with anyone, to totally sharing your personal details and being a famous Twitcher - all can be used if we measure ourselves accordingly and truthfully put ourself in places we're comfortable with and help feed those outside our circle, saying yes and no to things helps that but can be compatible with slightly less compatible if aims are similar (to learning or less-hate for example).</p><p> ➡️ I think 'perfection' is what people have got used to (consciously and unconsciously) from being presented perfection for modern capitalistic things - but largely it doesn't exist, it's just an exchange or transfer with various others in between, so a bit of unlearning is there (learning what the exchanges are to morally weigh it better for ourself) towards more sustainability or less polluting ways that shoot the self in foot by using it or could be minimised. </p><p>➡️ Eventually people have FAQ-like answer pages or posts for so the next person who ask "why this?" - just have it as linkable thing and part of talking as a cycle which is in itself a big step and leap in advancing humans things... </p><p>and then later if people really like each other can do more but should come naturally from giving 'wasted' time to really see how ace everyone is or can be.</p><p>➡️ A sample of ourselves helps others see but often needs others asking and demand for it! Often MANY things are not represented on Fediverse because it's just "this is my job' and few hashtags as a few lines of description so people could do more to see each others pictures / posts and also give <a href="https://qoto.org/tags/review" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>review</span></a> and <a href="https://qoto.org/tags/motivation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>motivation</span></a> for others to do something about any opinion if it holds weight !).</p><p>🔴 TLDR Alone is worst case scenario but also slowly together</p><p> ➡️ Users / humans have always been the weak point. Capitalism (including ignorance by users / people) have had these 'dirty' methods increasingly work underneath everything - This got us perfect computers (much of Tech included) and so we got used to it being presented as perfect end product that 'works' but kind of doesn't in many other ways as humans are put aside. So when I was complained to any admin about their 2GB video files for largely nothing and multiples copies - well that shows the contrast that all of us are born in luxury or hypocrisy or bourgeoise with bloat... so I realised all of us have this at various levels - not seeing the metals and rejecting it all but sloing it down so huge operations to get it to us also slow down... cloud data is less used, moving from Gmail while having along side another email for years and then moving over... we think things work perfectly and on time - but need to realise it all isn't and actually less use it almost of high need or high existence. </p><p>🔴 TLDR 1 Text, pictures, basic video we all have enough of even <a href="https://qoto.org/tags/offline" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>offline</span></a>,</p><p>🔴 TLDR 2 - overall we need to minimise machines and maximise humans </p><p> ➡️ Give humans more to do, caring and sharing</p><p>which are all at a cost BUT HAVING SAID THAT yes take the lowest class perfect things and work on accepting human imperfections and workflows from that or just analogue thing like seeing what care about and weaving it what you do as actions daily (imagine <a href="https://qoto.org/tags/transformers" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>transformers</span></a> character adding to Optimus Prime and make one big transformer). Often a leader or wave maker (as we see in the bad ways) is enough - but people need to believe and then measure better allowing better 'blind' cooperation and sooner seeing if I become a <a href="https://qoto.org/tags/Musk" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Musk</span></a> - otherwise it can be from a few decent people building 2, 4, 8 on top but needs to be quality and heart...</p><p>Less machines, more people doing the talking / growing people up and out.</p><p>🔴 "Autobots transform!" <br>(Ok... "Humanity... UNITE")<br>(or "Workers of the world, UNITE / merge your talents!")</p><p>=====================<br>THE <a href="https://qoto.org/tags/FREESCHOOL" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FREESCHOOL</span></a> WAY / <br>ANOTHER TO SAY IT:<br>=====================<br>Imagine "2 at a time" method </p><p>👬 2 lightly shaking hands as hello and seeing profile and asking more about things - maybe a sig in profile "You can ask me / <a href="https://qoto.org/tags/FreeSchool" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FreeSchool</span></a> method accepted here"<br>So it's me and you and then the next 2 persons brave enough to do the small-scale which eventually makes a big scale BUT without trying to jump there using tech, this uses people.</p><p>A kind of Tetris of human pieces that helps us find a way to fit to each other and then see others are trustable more often (from the practice itself) and from social online seeing past efforts and past writing or just able to ask now spontaneously. </p><p>With others we can do it - without not! <br>(while not needing to go all-in either way or trust totally first time). </p><p>🔴 TLDR = Time and expression helps it all. And opposite is tre also.</p><p>We then build according to our interests and listening to others, exploring their multi-dimensional existence (E,g, I'm not just one thing as Capitalsm wants to see me as for it's best profit and ignores / devalues the rest - I'm pretty magic / infinitely persistent and dogged in my own niche). </p><p>We weave it all with the principles and reasoning and keep each other in mind to give what we can and take what we want / like - in order for some ping pong or volleyball without middle people who don't care...</p><p>➡️ The only tech we need is Mastodon, and some privacy voice apps maybe for voice message later (<a href="https://qoto.org/tags/Simplex" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Simplex</span></a>, <a href="https://qoto.org/tags/DeltaChat" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>DeltaChat</span></a> can send text, voice messages as 1-touch button and send but Fediverse for now) </p><p>Something like <a href="https://vocaroo.com/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">vocaroo.com/</span><span class="invisible"></span></a> later can help human audio practice adn perfect expression and give human feedback (instead of just long text - just 1 website to record and send link to privately without bigtech!). We can create our own Vocaroo too as I think it still has some basic website stuff that could be reduced.</p><p>===================</p><p>➡️ THERE REST BELOW IS JUST A LIST FORM OF WHAT YOU WROTE:</p><p>We share and can learn something more personal:</p><p><a href="https://qoto.org/tags/trust" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trust</span></a>,<br><a href="https://qoto.org/tags/communication" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>communication</span></a>,<br><a href="https://qoto.org/tags/collaboration" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>collaboration</span></a><br>without <a href="https://qoto.org/tags/coercion" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>coercion</span></a> (encouragement)<br><a href="https://qoto.org/tags/respecting" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>respecting</span></a> everyone's <a href="https://qoto.org/tags/freedom" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>freedom</span></a> a<br><a href="https://qoto.org/tags/self" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>self</span></a>-determination, <br>to help pursue their <a href="https://qoto.org/tags/dreams" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>dreams</span></a> and <a href="https://qoto.org/tags/support" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>support</span></a> each other in achieving them. </p><p>NICE LIST - Could be added as a basic "WAY" or in a pinned post...</p><p>OK IT'S A LOT - BUT HOPE YOU READ AT START HOW TO SKIP DOWN FAST using 1st paragraphs of ➡️ points and 🔴 TLDR points... </p><p>This post serves as a bit of practice how to deal with a lot of text and feel ok about it (I hope) and then we trim it all / refine / filter it.... </p><p>Let me know... I did it fast so let's see your speed and balance it - do it in your own casual time too to maintain your own flow in life and see if we fit timings - <br>nice!</p>